Chris Gardner's choice of his biographical film's title was beyond a mere reminiscent recollection of a mis-spelt word that he came across on almost all his days in peril, it was a remarkable neologism which marked the inevitable separation of feigned happiness from true happyness. Although the film advertises the well sold cliche that destiny favours only those out of the poor who toil hard to make more than a living, it etches a memorable picture of the pursuit of a widely sought state - real happiness,which is called happyness.
Happiness as a state is difficult to realize when achieved, because when you have it, you dont realize that you have it. In the sense, when you have it and by the time you realize your possession, you become conscious and try to restrict the flow of happiness, and thereby restrict happiness itself. When conscious, you are distracted by your existence from your being, no matter how much you try to vex your brain to stay calm. So, in pursuit of happiness, you actually lose it on the way. That is why happiness should never be pusued, it is to be attained. It comes as a reward to truth and passion. It is better to keep lesser reasons to safeguard your happiness, for the more you have, the lesser you will gain
This occured to me as I watched two people laughing - the air was of pure mirth. But it did not take much time to read who among them was actually happy. The smiles of the happier person reached his eyes and emanated a radiant glow of ambience. The other person struggled to mask his artifice - though he did a pretty good job in sporting a camouflage of expressions, the elegance retreated as soon as awareness took over. The happier one continued to amaze the beholder by presenting a sense of ease, from a face comprehended to be unpromising moments before.
So come out of the hangover of the past, submit yourself to the joy of the present, and free yourself from the fear about the future. Truth and passion are, and riches and luxury not, the two ingredients to real happiness also known as happyness - the true way of life.